I received a PM a few days ago and I get these on occasion and I will admit that sometimes I remember the client and sometimes I honestly don’t. No matter, though, the stories always bring a smile to my face and as cheesy as it sounds, I get great satisfaction out of them. No, I am not saving lives and curing cancer but every now and then I feel good to have made a positive impact on someone and I am always flattered that they take the time to touch base with me and let me know this.
Here is the PM:
My name is Shane M, (Sugashane) I worked with you for 3 months a while back. I’m at the hospital now and looking at my new baby, and I just thought about how much has happened in the last 2 years. I opened up my bookmarks on my computer and saw intensemuscle still at the top and thought I’d drop a line to let you know what all has happened since I trained under you.
I got over 200 for the only time in my life. In April of 2009, I topped out at 201 pounds at only 11% BF, which was great considering how I was doing nothing but a straight bulk. I was also set for the Air Force, and had my ship date at Dec 7. Kate had also agreed to marry me, and literally a week or two later we found out she was pregnant.
Things were rough for a while. I got into some really heavy use of painkillers, especially after Katie had the miscarriage in July. I hit rock bottom and nearly lost everything, even Katie. I handled everything wrong and acted like a total bitch. Finally my brother told me exactly how pathetic I was being and set me straight.
Getting clean was literally the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I had no respect for myself anymore so I set a goal to earn it back with the Air Force. I set a list of goals and set out to beat them all. I didn’t get all of them, I actually missed 3 out of the 10, but not by much.
I entered into the AF and was placed in a flight of Paratroopers, SEREs, etc. I was put as an Element Leader just because of age. I admit I was homesick for my wife, but on Christmas Day I got my one call home. I found out that we were having a baby again and the fire was lit again. I earned Dorm Chief by week 5. I entered MEPs at 196 lbs and was able to get Warhawk in our last PT test, even after stepping on another trainees foot and hurting my knee. Since I passed the tests I got to graduate, but I couldn’t do the Airman’s Run or ceremony. I also could not leave for tech school until I was evaluated. Well my MRI came back and I had retore my ACL in my right knee. A disqualifying condition since I had to get a waiver to be allowed to enlist. I was in the 319th Training Squadron for just over 100 days before I was sent back home and given an Honorable Discharge. I lost my appeal to the Med Board.
At home I realized just how much different I was physically. I was down to 153 pounds. Being in BMT for almost 5 months and only eating what little you can force down in chow just wasn’t enough to keep weight on, especially with me being on crutches for 2 months.
I got a job and started working out all over again. Definitely a humbling experience. Maxing out a squat at a shit-form 135 lbs, running a mile in 9:12 (that longer than I ran the mile and a half for the PT test), and the great “I look like I’m going through chemo” feelings when I look in a mirror all took a toll.
But I stepped up and kept at it. I slowly worked back into a diet much like what you had me on, and I am back 182 pounds (no gear), lifts are slowly but steadily climbing again, and the marriage has been amazing. Now I sit here and see my wife sleeping and my baby boy sleeping right next to her in his crib. Its amazing.
Things never worked out how I planned. I made mistakes and had bad luck in a lot of things, but I bettered myself from them. I learned and will better myself and my family because of that.
If I hadn’t worked with you I doubt I’d have started over in the game. I gained a lot of knowledge and confidence in the few months I trained under you.
My goal is to compete in a powerlifting meet, then a regional bodybuilding show in the same year, before I’m 30.
Just wanted to say thank you and let you know what has happened since the last time we talked. Thanks again for everything.
God bless,
Shane M






